Israr Khan
“What doesn’t kill you makes you weaker.”“Always trust your feelings.”“Life is a battle between good people and evil people.”
“From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly so that you will come to know the value of justice. I hope you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty. Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonelyfrom time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted. I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either. Andwhen you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now andthen, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship. I hope you’ll be ignored, so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion.Whether I wish these things or not, they’regoing to happen.And whether you benefit from them or not will depend upon your ability to see the message in your misfortunes.”
“We are supposed to “agree to disagree,” a phrase now used indiscriminately as little more than a conversational fire extinguisher.And if we insist that not everything is a matter of opinion, that some things are right and others are wrong well, then we’re just being jerks, apparently.”
“Well-informed citizens, too, have come in for their share of criticism, since their well-organized ‘ideological’ thinking often turns out to be just a rather mechanicalreflectionof what their favorite group and party leaders have instructed them to think.”
“We must learn to see the full picture and not just the treats before our eyes. Our trendy gadgets, such as smartphones and tablets, have given us new access to the world. We regularly communicate with people we would never even have been aware of before the networked age. We can find information about almost anything at any time.But we have learned how much our gadgets and our idealistically motivated digital networks are being used to spy on us by ultrapowerful, remote organizations. We are being dissected more than we dissect.”