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Getting Fit and Building Confidence with Personal Trainer Melissa Bayne-Allison
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Trying to manage your weight can be a tough, everyday task.
You check the mirror, hoping for progress, but the same reflection stares back. Every pound feels heavier, and you start to believe that your weight measures your value. There’s always a back-and-forth between not feeling good enough and wishing you could make a change.
How would it feel to finally escape this cycle? As the pounds fall away, so does the stress and anxiety that ’s been holding you down. You wake up each day feeling lighter, confident, and full of self-love.
“If you can live harmoniously, I believe that’s where you find true joy in everything you do—no matter what it is, even if it’s just doing laundry.”
Melissa Bayne-Allison has been where you are now. She’s a vibes first behavior change coach and personal trainer who has walked her own path to healing.
Melissa has years of fitness and wellness experience. But more than that, she’s lived through the same struggles you face.
She experienced bullying, survived sexual abuse, and fought her way out of addiction. Through all these, she learned how to move past them and make positive changes in her life.
In her role as a trainer, she assists people in ending emotional eating. She also teaches them how to manage stress and feel good about their bodies.
“You need to get real with how you feel. We cannot move forward if we are holding on to our backpack from high school.”
Understanding Emotional Eating and How to Address It
Emotional eating is often a response to stress and anxiety. When we face intense emotions, we tend to turn to food for comfort. This can lead to unhealthy eating habits and more stress. Common triggers include:
Stress: Loaded with work or life responsibilities.
Anxiety: Using food as a distraction from worried thoughts.
Boredom: Eating out of habit rather than hunger.
These triggers can push us to find relief in food rather than solving the root causes of our emotions.
To reach a healthier weight, Melissa says to start small and be aware of your eating patterns. Here's how you can start:
Get Real with Your Feelings: Identify the emotions driving your food choices. Recognize these triggers and address them.
Track Your Eating: For one week, write down everything you eat without judgment. This helps you see patterns and identify what makes you feel good or bad.
Focus on Fuel: Understand that food is fuel. Choose foods that energize you and make you feel good.
Avoid Restriction: Instead of cutting out foods, fill up on nutritious options. This way, you’re not denying yourself but making better choices.
Clear the Clutter: Both physical and emotional clutter can affect your eating habits. Organize your environment and manage stress to help focus on your health goals.
Mindful Eating: Pay attention to what and why you’re eating. Ask yourself if your hunger is real or you’re reacting to a familiar behavior. Shift from negative inner thoughts to a place of care and kindness.
I used to have a nightly ice cream routine. It took me a while to see that it wasn’t working for me. But after I started eating healthier during the day, I was able to control those evening cravings.
The Role of a Supportive Trainer
A universal approach to fitness and nutrition doesn’t work for everyone. A trainer who understands your personal goals and needs can be exactly what you need. Here’s how a trainer can help:
Accountability: Regular check-ins ensure you stay on track.
Motivation: A trainer provides encouragement and support.
Celebrating Progress: Recognize and celebrate your win, big or small.
Melissa takes a unique and custom plan in guiding her clients. She starts by having them fill out a "vibe check" application to ensure that she's the right fit for them. Next, she gives them tools, keeps them accountable, and sets up a system that pushes their growth.
Here are the steps to build a strong support network and stay driven::
Join a Supportive Community: Find or create a community of like-minded individuals who share your goals and values. This could be a fitness group, a book club, or an online forum.
Seek Guidance: Partner with a coach or accountability buddy to help you stay on track with your goals.
Conclusion:
Achieving a healthier weight is about taking back your life. Understand your triggers, track your habits, and shift from restriction to mindful choices. Don’t let past struggles define your future. Having a trainer who understands you can make it easier to love yourself and feel good in your body.
What does a home that heals mean?
At the end of my conversation with Melissa, I asked her what homes that heal mean to her. She shared how appreciation and acceptance can lift the vibe in any space.
“A home that heals is about bringing acceptance and appreciation into your life and space. When you bring positive energy into your space, it extends to how you care for your surroundings.”
Connect with Jen:
Website: jenhellerlifestyle.com
Email Add: hello@jenhellerlifestyle.com
IG: @jenhellerlifestyle
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Facebook Page: Jen Heller
Facebook Group: Jen Heller Lifestyle
Connect with Melissa:
Website: thrivempowercoaching.com
IG: @thats.my.coach.mel
Facebook Page: Melissa Bayne-Allison
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Revamp your home into a healing space. My Wellness Checklist is full of tips to refresh your space and brighten your mood.
Melissa Bayne-Allison Bio:
Mel is a “VIBES FIRST” Behavior Change Coach, personal trainer, and Domestic Violence+Sexual Assault consultant.
She has been supporting people in leveling up their lives, and health for the last 15 years.
Three years ago, she launched her own coaching+consulting business, Thrive & Empower, LLC, to serve people in a way that felt+vibed more like her!