Modern Love
RAJESH BHARDWAJ
I meet a lot of people who have serious issues with their parents, siblings, neighbors, etc. It
seems like in the recent years we have forgotten the true meaning of Love. Every aspect is
dependent on over expectations, which is killing the joy of simple living. Some of us make a
decision and impose on the person we claim to love. Where is that emotion called LOVE? of
being truly accepting the other person the way he /she is. We are really working hard to change
the other person the way we are, and not accepting the individual with his/her own mindset. The
crux of happy and peaceful life is simple acceptance of the vibes that suits you. When we love a
flower like Rose, we do not make effort to convert it to Lilly, do we? If your answer is yes, then
you are wrong my friend. We are just making castles in the air and when the reality breaks the
fiction, it’s quite painful.
Let your kids grow, listen to them, listen to the advice and believe me kids are far more
intelligent as compared to a grownup person as he has the potential to question, his mind is not
blocked with the limited knowledge, he is curious, dissatisfied with every bookish answer. Once
we stop listening, we close our doors of self-progress (would explain in my next blog). When I
was in my teenage, I was completely rejected for my suggestion and even discussions, this
created a sense of dumbness in me and introvert nature overshadowed my mind. Well that may
be the case for me but it might create another personality for other person.
Parents are always a step ahead of the social circle and the experience of the roadblocks they
have faced. The wrinkles explain the time they have spent on understanding all different
temperaments. The family they have been broughtup by, the legacy of ancestor, general beliefs,
religion etc. They are far more capable of guiding the new generation of loop holes and flaws,
thus it is best to at least listen to them.
We all have at least one friend with whom we share our problems, that friend could be anyone
mom, dad, colleague, brother, sister, etc. Just don’t live the life all by yourself, we have been
raised in a society where, since childhood we are taught to share, so does Love. I do not disagree
with the fact that some of us can really maintain the equilibrium of our mind by not sharing the
feelings with anyone, the situations made us the way we react. My only point here is to let the
feeling flow and make the person near to you, be approachable, it will spread joy. The word
“Feeling” here refers to is Care we do for each other.
In simple words they occupy a lot of information which can be very valuable.
Getting back to the crux, Love, just care for people around you, you never know what they are
facing, where are they coming from, let them feel safe, desired, let the feel of humanity flourish.
We wait for miracle to happen but its all within us to make thing moving for ourselves. Just
believe in Karma, do good for someone today, it will be returned as a favor by someone else. It is
Karma Chakkar, what we sow is what we reap.
It’s quite difficult for most of the people to leave aside the Ego. Let me explain this in a bit
detail. At times we stand rock solid by our decision to, or not to, do accomplish a task and its
quite difficult to accept the change (another blog explains it in details). Dear all its just one life
we all live, accept the fact if you are wrong at time and revert, take a U turn, nothing wrong in it.
I strictly advice not to take a hit on Self-respect but leave aside Ego, it helps to solve a lot of
relationship issues.
Conclusion for a meaningful relation and a happy atmosphere is respect the individual,
sentiments, nature, views, etc. Start listening to each other, do not listen to respond, just listen to
understand, I am quite certain this will bring about a lot of change in the way we look at the
world now.
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Posted Apr 3, 2023
Conclusion for a meaningful relation and a happy atmosphere is respect the individual, sentiments, nature, views, etc. Start listening to each other, do not li
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