Using language to describe the experiences you feel can assist in processing anxiety, tension and trauma memories more efficiently, allowing you to have the experience move through you. For example, if you’re annoyed at something that’s occurred but don’t want to stay annoyed, you can use descriptive words to address the issue. Begin with some words like “It feels like a wound-up ball of rubber bands in my chest…”. As you say this, follow the sensations in your body, of how the feeling changes when you focus on the physical body rather than the upsetting event.