Who is Stopping you ?

What if u Choose to be happy Every day ditching all the sad thoughts that crosses your way? What if you just want to be yourself and forget all the “Why” of Society ? What if you just want to walk around the street eating a Cotton Candy and letting people judge you. What if you just want to dance in Rain just like a 4 year old . What if you do anything that makes you Happy at the end of the day.

I had a quote for myself this whole time : “ One should always be happy today so that we do not regret tomorrow thinking Why was I sad Yesterday? “ and I stand by this today as well .

Of course every human being is hurt and broken at times but waking up strong is what matters at the end . Rising like Phoenix is what everyone should believe in.

I believe in that too but yes I get hurt too easily as well. My Mother once said that the people who trust other people easily gets hurt easily as well . While I was in my teenage I did not take those words seriously because yes being teenagers all of us tend to think in a different way but as I grew up and moved from cities to cities and met end number of people and felt that what mom once said was so correct I tend to reconsider my decisions as a teenager. All of us hide end number of things from our parents. But when I failed in some major decisions of life and was broken as hell and decided to share my thoughts with my parents , they actually understood and I felt so relieved . At the End its your parents who stands by you when the whole world shuts down.

In my case my Parents have always been my pillar of strength. May it be my academics, Career or love life. They have been with me standing tall the entire time and I have realised that when your parents trust u in everything you do in life you actually tend to be more happier.

So if your parents are ready to walk around the street with you sharing your cotton candy , let the society judge you as much as they want , you will be happier each day. Stay happy that makes you glow and beautiful

I want a perfect life, a bed full of roses with no thorns in it, I want to walk in the rain without getting wet , I want to succeed in life without working hard. Does that make sense ? No right?

Some of us wish for things and get it easily whereas some of us have to struggle a lot more to get things done. Some of us need to work so hard and get things done and sometimes we tend to think ourselves to be unlucky and complain .

Life would be so perfect if we get whatever we wish for . Isn’t it? I wish for the same as well and often get disappointed when things don’t work out the way I want to .

Facing complex situations in life and feeling like giving up is Normal. All of us has felt this way at some point of life. But giving up actually is not done. Failing in life is still Ok but not trying is not Ok. Failing after trying multiple times is even Ok but cursing your failure is still not Ok.

The other day I Called Dad and was complaining about how complex things are and not being able to achieve things even when I try so so hard. My Dad is always a believer of working hard and he said something which boosted me, He explained : There is no happiness and fun in getting things so easily. How will you understand the value and complexity of things if u get it too soon? When things take time , just remember that its worth it and it will stay. Good things take time. He also gave me examples from The Mahabharata explaining about Lord Krishna’s struggle to come to this world and we still are human.

What happens nowadays is we find it too difficult to wait for things to happen. We want everything at a click as we are living in a world which runs so fast, we often forget that Good things do take time. We do struggle but don’t give a second thought before giving up . We often are tired of things easily . We fail to look at failure like an opportunity .

All of us started Crawling then trying to walk and fell several times , did we give up then? No right? We tried and kept trying until We could walk and run to our parents and gave that cheerful laugh that We did it . So? Why can’t We still try and try and run towards glory and still give that Cheerful laugh ?

So squeeze lemon at your failure and drink it like a lemonade and add some sweet and salty flavour to your life. And as I always say Be Happy because it makes you glow and beautiful