Email- from chaos to calm in love for High Achieving Women
Abraham khan
Subject line: he pulled away not because you're too much but…
Hi Jessica.
If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling after he pulls away…
Re-reading texts.
Second-guessing every word.
Blaming yourself for being “too much”…
This isn’t just about him.
It’s about what your nervous system believes love is supposed to feel like.
Because for many high-achieving women,
love was always something you had to earn
by being perfect.
By not needing too much.
By staying calm, cool, and collected…
even when your heart was breaking.
But love…real love…
doesn’t punish your needs, wants, or feelings.
It holds them.
It doesn’t ask you to shrink.
It asks you to exhale.
And if your system has only known chaos?
You might confuse calm for “boring.”
But that calm?
That’s safety.
That’s stability.
That’s what your soul is craving.
There’s a proven technique I’ve developed
that’s helped thousands of women shift this exact pattern.
The one where safe love feels dull…
And chaotic love feels addictive.
Where you chase the thrill that leaves you in tears…
While pushing away the peace you say you want.
This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about helping your body, soul, and brain
recognise what’s right for you and what’s not.
So if you’re ready to stop spiraling,
stop overthinking,
and start receiving love that doesn’t require performing…
Then let’s talk.
Click here to book a free 1-on-1 call,
and I’ll walk you through this technique myself.
P.S.
You’re not broken.
You’re just burnt out from performing.
It’s time to come home to yourself
and receive the love you’ve always deserved.
Talk soon,
Matthew coast.
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Posted Jul 1, 2025
An Email for a dating coach about women who blame themselves when men pull away, i reframed their pain with empathy.
