2. The Ten Secrets to a Happy Marriage

3. Is It Necessary to End the Honeymoon?

Dr. Bill Maier on Romance, №4

Successful marital partners are astute. They read books, go to seminars, read articles on the internet, and observe other successful people.

Following are ten success elements I’ve learnt from working with and observing hundreds of couples:

Happiness isn’t the most crucial factor to consider. Everyone wishes to be happy, yet happiness is a fleeting emotion. When life pushes happiness away, successful couples learn to purposefully do things that will bring it back. In a successful marriage, a couple learns the significance of simply showing there. When things go bad and couples are at a loss for what to do, they must persevere and be there for their partner.

Change your mind, and your marriage will change as well. How couples think and believe about their spouse has an impact on how they see each other. What they anticipate from their spouse and how they treat them matters a lot. Where you water the grass, it grows the greenest. Successful couples have learnt to reject the idea that the grass is greener on the other side, i.e., that someone else will make me happy. They’ve figured out how to put their