Six years ago I cared for my own mother and planned the costs on paper because paper was the best tool then.
Researching pain points for women from the sandwich generation, I read hundreds of caregiver posts on Reddit, Mumsnet, and Facebook groups alongside reports from the ILO and AARP. The same pattern: one sibling does 70–100% of the care, the rest stay away. The caregiver who has been doing everything for two years has no way to renegotiate the arrangement without the conversation sounding like a threat or an accusation. Existing caregiver contract templates describe the relationship between a hired caregiver and a patient. Nothing covers the arrangement between siblings.
So I built CareWeight. A wizard that documents who handles what, maps hours to six care categories with occupation-specific US market rates, and produces a printable agreement. Free, no signup, no backend. US rates only right now.
The user is a woman 45–60, mobile-first, often filling this out at 11 PM after a day of caregiving. That shaped every decision.