Is it really about "the place"? or it is just an illusion for us? or a perfect place doesn't exist in the real world. I heard from a lot of people, "it is not about the place, it is about the people". So, it is about people then? what if, it is neither about the place nor the people. No one knows after others think about this everyone thinks differently unless you got your soulmate.
A few days ago while I was reading a book, I came across the topic of people who lived a long life. Misao Okawa, from birth to end she lived in Osaka, a village in japan. Misao lived for 117 years. she almost lived 3 different centuries. she saw every change in Osaka. but Misao was happy and enjoyed her life in Osaka. after reading this I thought, it can be about the place. how can a human life in the same place in 117 years and still be happy? doesn't she get bored of living there? I am not talking about living for 80-90 years, for 117 years. but after all this story and a bunch of questions, my question is still the same "is it about people or the place?"
Just imagine "you just moved to your first "the place" in the apartment, suddenly the sun peaks out behind the clouds and you realized your lifelong dream of living in that place came true". wouldn't you want that? why not? right. even I want it to happen. we are desperate for it to happen. after moving there, I know life will be different. we might change, we have to adjust, there will be many changes but how we overcome them that only matters. we will have a great experience, we will meet new people, we might bond forever with them. it will be an enjoyable journey. unless we do it. it doesn't matter if it's about people or place. do what you think is right. you want to move then move if it will make you happy. but do what makes you happy.
2021
