It's important to note, however, that it isn't so important to be “tight”. Vaginas can expand and contract more than you think, and aren't stretched by penetrative intercourse or even childbirth in a lot of cases. Some vaginas are wider, some are smaller. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have a strong or weak pelvic floor. Will your vagina change? Perhaps, and that’s ok! There are many therapeutic exercises and techniques to recover from childbirth to regain your confidence and pleasure, including the use of pelvic floor trainers!