We get fascinated by so many things in our lifetime, sometimes the return prize givenWe get fascinated by so many things in our lifetime, sometimes the return prize given
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Mohit Tomar
• Jun 17
We get fascinated by so many things in our lifetime, sometimes the return prize given to us is only pain.
Getting fascinated by anything causes the thousands of thoughts which control your mind. Just recall the time when you, for the first time, get fascinated by anything in your life.
It has not started in a month or two, in fact it's been our habit from our childhood.                          
Imagine you are visiting your friend's home and you have discovered something really attractive and you also want the same thing.
You want it right now and want it badly, you are fascinated so you ultimately have bought it, it always happens with people in daily life. 
In the office, in their dreams, they see the visions of dresses, cars, bikes, gifts, and many other things actually.
Merely the most dangerous for today's generation is fascination for anything,
But most dangerous among all is fascination for a relationship, they observe the people around them like maybe family, friends, movies, serial, celebrities, or social media celebrities,
Especially those who are in relationships, having dates, walks, dinners, parties, posting selfies, status and all such things.
Thus they think that their life is just worse and fun less and then they underestimate their own, they start comparing their lives.
Those thoughts just control their mind and make them blind to some extent, and they want a guy or girl so badly and that time they don't even calculate or judge people in a proper way. 
That's how all the bad things can happen to you if you fascinate for the so called relationship and such things,
Especially after watching on social media, your friend's or anyone's life..
Don't do this because of such fascination, or because of any kind of comparison with those people..
Yes, you have that desire and all do have the same, but at first, always find the intention. 
Don't do it just because you are ensnared in such fascination, just because you also want to go to the parties, for having conversations, for just because you want to talk someone,
Just because you're feeling alone,
just because you're getting bored from your lifestyle, or just because someone pick you up and drop, hang out, dates, 
Or just want to post a selfie and show your friends and close ones that you also have a partner and you feel like that's going to help you to look cool in front of others.
So better come out of such shit, and recognize your worth well first.
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