one of the hardest decisions i've ever made was resigning from my job to protect my mental health.
from the outside, it probably looked like I was walking away from an opportunity. but what people didn't see was the constant exhaustion, the emotional weight i carried every day, and how much it was affecting my well being. i reached a point where i knew that staying was costing me more than leaving.
i resigned without having everything figured out. i hoped that choosing myself would immediately lead to better opportunities. it didn't not right away.
few months that followed were difficult. i faced uncertainty, financial pressure and moments where i questioned whether i'd made the right decision.
there were days i wondered how i would pay my bills, whether i'd find another role, and if prioritizing my mental health had been worth the risk.
looking back, i don't regret leaving. i regret not preparing better before i did. and if i could do it again, i would build a financial cushion, strengthen my professional network, and create a clearer transition plan before resigning.
that experience taught me an important lesson: protecting your mental health is never the wrong decision, but it's even more empowering when it's supported by preparation. taking care of yourself and planning for your future can exist together.